“You think that you are less worthy because you are damaged or hurt? You are worthier and more whole than most of the people I have met. Why? Because every crack inside you is a chance for light and growth, and I am sure that you are making an effort to explore every opportunity.” Tens of eyes stared at Dr. Tamar Jehuda Cohen in disbelief. Some of the youth started shifting in their seats. she could see the thoughts running through their heads: ‘Another one with her philosophies. As if one can change my hard reality with a few nice words’. “I woke up from a surgery, in which a tumor was removed from my brain, paralyzed in half my body, and with debilitating damage to the ability of my brain to think. After a long and hard effort in rehab, my body is functioning well. My brain has remained with loses. I used to be a genius, now I am not. Now I am injured. Now I am damaged.” Dr. Tamar Jehuda Cohen sees them looking at her suspiciously. She looks really well. Walking, talking, even making sense. “My brain has holes in it now, there are gaps in my capabilities. But I? I am more complete today; I am a better human being now.” Someone bursts in and says: “How can that be? Whoever is damaged, is damaged, period.” Another one mumbles under his nose, “Does she really think that a brain with holes is preferable? Maybe this is part of what is wrong with her?” “How could it be that my missing abilities actually fill me up?  Because the effort to rehabilitate has strengthened me, and the trials to fill in the gaps have built me. Who else needs to try as hard as you do? How much effort does it take for you to simply be ‘normal’?” Many heads are nodding in agreement. Someone raises his hand and starts talking right away: “For you, things worked out. But what happens with those who do not succeed?” “There is no such thing as not succeeding in building yourself,” says Dr. Tamar Jehuda Cohen. “Maybe you will not reach your set destination, but no matter to where you do reach – it will be in a better place than the one you were at before you tried. How do I know? Because the mere fact of trying to become rehabilitated builds something strong and special within you. And that is a gift no one can take from you.”